Maxine Albert writes: Besides all the obvious reasons to dislike Sarah, there's always been something else about her that bothered me, but I couldn't quite put my finger on it. It became clear when I was watching the Palin-Biden debate with my boyfriend Bob. Sarah has such self confidence. She came out and blew a kiss to the audience like it was second nature. I could tell Bob liked that. The Vice-Maverick went right up to Senator Biden and asked if she could call him `Joe.' You could see she felt really comfortable around men. When she proceeded to wink at the audience as she spoke, Bob really appreciated those winks. And I knew why - I've used them myself to get my way with men. Sarah reminds me of someone... someone we women know all too well. She's that girlfriend you can't trust with your man - not even for a second. She's ruthless and heartless and will do and say anything to get what she wants. Sarah's not your true girlfriend; she's all about her. We women are an intuitive bunch. We love our girlfriends - and we can smell a phony a mile away. You've seen the type in "All About Eve." Sarah - we don't like you and we don't trust you. When we look at you we see that bad girl all the guys would cheat with. Get away from our men. And guys - she's all smiles, kisses and winks until it turns to `Fatal Attraction'. Women understand Sarah all too well. And we don't want her around. (Maxine Albert is a speech coach, writer and consultant based in Manhattan.)